Triangulation can be defined as an indirect form of communication where one person (usually the narcissist) acts as a messenger between two other people. Or it can be a direct form of communication where one person attempts to draw in an accomplice, to gang up against a third party, to further their agenda.
In a narcissist’s world, It’s all about them, as Narcissists possess no real empathy, they feign or act empathic, while they delude themselves that they are entitled to special treatment, and to not having to bother with detail or drudgery (Babiak:2006). These narcissists often gather a following of helpers or “sidekicks” to manipulate into doing any effort based work for them. Instead, they spent their time managing their “image”, being a “visionary”, being “strategic”, establishing key “contacts”, that they argue only they are able to successfully do
Narcissistic Supply is anything that builds the narcissist’s ego up and re-affirms his feelings of superiority, grandiosity, and entitlement.
Trust is fragile. Secrets and lies jeopardize trust and can damage us and our relationships – sometimes irreparably.
But in an intimate relationship, emotional honesty includes allowing our partner to know the core being of who you are. Honesty is more than simply not lying.
You will soon see that a covert malignant narcissist will not take a stand on a topic of conversation. It’s as if they don’t stand for anything with a burning passion.
The Narcissist’s Pathological Envy Represents How Powerful You Are
“It was not your fault that you were abused; the fact that you were targeted is actually an indication that you have something special about you that the narcissist noticed and wanted to undermine in the first place.”